TAKE HOME REFLECTIONS
December 21.
Written by Angela Chenus.

December 21st:
A magical date since times long ago, solstice, the day the ancients believed the sun had abandoned the world for good, so dark and long was the night. Celebrating the solstice is celebrating faith, faith that the sun and spring will return, that there will be a long period of darkness yet, but that there is light at the end of the tunnel.

Can you find a way to embrace the cold and dark, knowing that it will not last forever?

Is there a celebration to be found in cozy days by the fireplace, adventures in the snow, hot cocoa and the warmth of shared stories and shared snuggles?

Today: read together a story from the Inuit. Their mythology is fun and powerful, they were, after all, making it through six months of winter darkness each year! Titles for children:

Raven, by Gerald McDermott from James Houston's Treasury of Inuit Legends
And/or: Light candles to banish the darkness from the corners. Making candles is a tradition we have in our family on this day; an easy method is rolling a sheet of beeswax around a wick. Materials can be easily found on bee-keepers' websites and kits in children's catalogs.

Then go for a candle light walk in the woods (or a close approximation thereof, the back yard may be adventure enough,) to welcome the return of the light that begins at midnight.


December 22nd:
Today is Hanukkah; Happy Hanukkah! and yes, Christmas is almost here, and you really don't have time to be reading these reflections, well-intentioned as they may be, there are things to do! As I look around me at this time of the year, there are inevitably a million things I have not done that I would like to accomplish, yet if I take a closer look, there is much good that has been done, and at this late date, that will have suffice.

Today: take a moment to breathe, to contemplate, to meditate. You could start your day with a personal meditation and lead your family in a collective sharing of something each is grateful for. We call our daily gathering in our house “joys and sorrows” like at church, but sometimes we banish the two categories in favor of sharing a gratitude.

Remembering how fortunate we are can help subvert the “gimmes” that have perhaps set in for the children and the despair of not doing it all for the adults.

December 23rd:
In my Catholic tradition, each year we would breathlessly await the coming of the “little lord Jesus” as my four-year-old calls him. Today is the day before the eve. The excitement is beginning to become palapable in households with children. It is also a time of awe, as we contemplate the miracle of birth, again. Here are a couple of ideas for cultivating the awe and wonder.

If your house contains a Nativity scene, you could gather around it with the kids and imagine out loud what each character might be thinking right now. Spin a story for a figure; that angel on Earth-duty for the first time, what a night for it! Joseph, first-time father; ask Dad what Joseph might be feeling. One lamb, lost among the big feet, or in the arms of his trusted shepheard, in awe at being let up this late tonight.

If your house does not contain a Nativity scene, you could create a “birth of the sun” scene, with a cradle or cushion in the middle and all of the figurines, stuffed animals and dolls your house contains all around to witness the rebirth of the sun. They surely have tales to tell as well.

December 24th, It is the Eve, the big one, Santa is probably coming to your house, ready or not, Christian or not. Breathe in, be in the moment, welcome the holy presence you believe in into your own heart first today. Your mood and attitude will set the mood for the rest of the family, take care of yourself first.

One of our favorite traditions is attending the evening service at church, then taking a plateful of cookies to the neighbors' houses, caroling through the neighborhood at the top of our (mostly the kids') voices. This always has a nice effect when it has snowed and all is still. You could find your own way of spreading cheer and sharing the joy with others today.

December 25th, Merry Christmas! If you are not Christian today, you and your family, as Unitarians honoring the lives of great religious leaders, could bake a cake for the birthday of Jesus. Enjoy the day together!


Happy Hanukkah! Merry Christmas! Happy Solstice! Joyful Yuletide! Angela Chenus